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    July 05

    执子之手 与子偕老

        没想到这天就要这么突然的从天而降了,从今往后,就要与这个男人大眼瞪小眼地过一辈子了.
        当我很正式的面对这个问题的时候,突然觉得心脏扑通扑通地乱跳,随之而来的就是血液循环加快,脑力不足,脾气暴躁,容易沮丧,动不动小脸的绷的板板儿的......经过严肃地自我诊断,恐怕这就是所谓的婚前恐惧症.

        首先,这里虽然是我的地盘儿,但是仍严禁杜绝只攻击他人,不批评自己的作风和态度.所以在此文开始我就严肃检讨了自己最近脾气大,易沮丧,绷脸儿时间较长等问题.同时,我也真诚地希望某个同志在各个方面提高自己的意识和觉悟.
        结婚是个繁琐而复杂的过程,需要操心的小事太多.我的工作性质不允许我晚到早退,甚至还要求我通宵达旦的加班.所以我希望在此期间,某个男同志能少玩一会游戏,多操心一下这个复杂的事情,加强此事的执行力,我会尽全力配合执行.爸妈都年纪大了,别在这事上惹他们着急生气的.
        另外,在装修期间我们达成良好共识----所有事情都商量着办,此优良传统要一直保留下去.或许你喜欢的正式我反感的,而我喜欢的你有可能接受不了,为了生活能平和的继续下去,也需要双方商量行事,不得强迫对方接受.以我这小爆脾气,估计只能打架,打架我也占不着便宜,所以需要协商,不得自作主张不顾他人感受.
        最后,虽然最近心情起伏跌宕,偶尔沮丧无比,但是事情还是会顺利地继续下去.用流行歌曲的词儿说,就是"我选择了你,你选择了我,这是我们共同的选择".所以呢,执子之手,与子偕老.我想每天都很高兴

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    weina lvwrote:
    来晚了,赶紧踩踩~~欢迎加入已婚族~~哇哇哇~~
    结婚挺好的,嘿嘿,真的很幸福~~
    Aug. 19
    yan Miaowrote:
    谢谢小玉哦!
    Aug. 9
    啊啊啊~我来晚了我~祝福你O(∩_∩)O~
    Aug. 7
    yan Miaowrote:
    各位姐妹们,到时候要来替我加油啊~哈哈
    Aug. 3
    Chu Echowrote:
    真快,09年9月9日真快到了呢,哈哈。
    大家都在祝福你幸福,我就不说了。
    因为我知道,从你跟我说起Yaboo的那天开始,你就已经真正幸福了。
    July 31
    duanduanwrote:
    我还没结婚对象呢已经严重恐婚,加油!
    July 31
    maggie wangwrote:
    这世界真疯狂!haha 祝福内!领证的内天得吱声哈!
    July 16
    祝福祝福,放轻松放轻松。
    小妞,加油加油!!!
    July 14
    雪 曹wrote:
    小妞儿,先祝福了,嘿嘿
    July 13
    yan Miaowrote:
    to 美美:翻看了一下你的日志,还真有这么一段...真想把八荣八耻爱妻观搬上来
    to 苏苏:哎,估计难了,愤青就是愤青啊
    July 8
    苏 苏wrote:
    哇,祝你们日后少打架,小愤青,别再愤青,少点正义感,。。。
    July 8
    Xinying LIUwrote:
    哈哈,这个帖子让我想起了3年前我婚前恐惧症时写的博客,如出一辙啊。当时我是求了多少遍才求来某位同志放下游戏一起去买家具的,历历在目啊!
    July 6
    ccwrote:
    恭喜恭喜
    July 6
    璐 杨wrote:
    哇噻,你也要结了,哈哈! 欢迎加入已婚阶级!
    July 6

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